Bula
Bula from Suva Fiji again!!!!
After
almost a year away, here we are back again on our way to voyage across the
south pacific seas (well for me and the kids its more like a quick flight over
the seas, whereas for Carl it will be more like a 4 day voyage across the vast
and choppy ocean... vomit!)Since we left Rotuma last year, for those of you who don’t know, we spent 5.5 amazing months in Israel with my family, I was present to welcome my divine little nephew Leo into the world, celebrated my dads 70th birthday and spend some magical quality time with my family and friends there. The boys both attended local preschools and made new friends and loved their time with their grandparents aunts and cousins.
We
then came back to Sydney and spent the past 5 months staying with Carls parents
in Cronulla, Carl working on the Anzac Bridge, Noah started school and Saulei
preschool. I did the same as I do everywhere. Mum.
Throughout
all this time we have been living off lists of things to do, get, prepare, pack
and design, all of which culminated in about 300kg of stuff we schlepped and
shipped to Fiji, and here we are, awaiting the way too familiar wait for the
boat to sail over to Rotuma.
And
on this very day, 16th of June, Carl and I are celebrating a DECADE
together... who woulda thunk????? What a journey!!! I remember on our first
date, Carl was telling me about this Island he is from, talking about his
family there, the culture, teaching me words in Rotuman and it all sounded so
enchanting... little did I know that 10 years later I will be returning to that
enchanted island with this man and our 2 kids, for the umpteenth time to build
our home...
So
we waved bye bye to our beloved family in Sydney and flew to Nadi, were
welcomed with a feast of the usual Rotuman Cuisine (Chicken Curry, rice, eko –
Taro leaves cooked in coconut cream, lamb stew gravy and Taro). This is what we
will be eating for the next 8 months, I know it!
Lovely
to see Aggie (with whom we lived in Rotuma) and
her daughter who just had a baby, and to catch up with their family. We
stayed in Nadi for a couple of nights and headed to Suva to buy all the local
stuff we need to take with. Little did we know that the boat wouldn’t leave
when planned (WHY didn’t we know that???? DA!!!!!) and that as usual we would be waiting way more
than planned for the boat, wasting time and money. (Carl will be going on the
boat with all our stuff, and the kids and I will follow him by plane. Am very
proud of myself for sticking to my oath of never repeating the boat experience,
so help me God.)
So
we have been stuck here in rainy Suva for more than a week, the kids have been
watching more TV than ever, the other kids in this house come home from school
in the afternoon and they all go nuts together, rolling in the mud and playing
squashed sardines (we are living in the house of Carls uncle Ringa’s family,
the 73 yr old work horse who was with us previously in Rotuma and will be
coming back with us. There are 8 adults and 5 kids all living in a 3 bedroom
house, and it works!)Mud Model
We
have been spending our days shopping for stuff for the house, arranging
whatever needs done, the kids and I are applying for Fijian residency (Hilarious!!!)
through Carls citizenship, which at the moment is free, whereas last year
costed about $1500 each...????!!!!
It
is finally my turn to have some input into the house, and the interior design
is all up to me, so I’ve been picking paint colours for the walls, we went to
choose tiles for the bathroom, kitchen and bathroom sinks, a toilet... what a
bizarre experience! (How weird is it choosing a toilet! I think I really
embarrassed Carl when I had to check out the comfortability of the seats... how
else do you know what’s right for you and your family’s derrières???)I must say that I am quite glad the variety and options are very limited, as it makes it easier for an OCI (Obsessive Compulsive Indecisive) like myself to choose what I want. That didn’t change the fact that I regretted my choice as soon as we stepped out of the shop...
We’ve been hanging out with Filo, a Fijian lady who’s husbands home is just down the road from ours in Rotuma. She happens to be in Fiji for a few months, playing the lady of leisure Fiji style, and has been taking us around Suva, showing us the sights and we’ve been seeing more of Suva than we have ever before. We usually come here, stay in the same place with the same relatives, and all we know of Suva is the taxi ride from their house to town and around the shops, So it’s great to get a bit of an insider’s view of it all. She took us to a show last night, it was a production of the University of the South Pacific Arts and Culture department, about how the people of the different South Pacific Islands came together to build this amazing Canoe called “Drua” and sailed the seas until the white settlers invaded... Carl and I were cringing at some of the cheesy corny love story factors, but the costumes were AMAZING, the dances beautiful and very powerful and the singing very heartfelt. It was the first time we ever did anything cultural here, a great change. This morning we went down to the waterfront to see 7 of these “Drua” take off on a voyage to Vanuatu and then the Solomon Islands. Beautiful vessels with great traditional carvings all over, (as well as beautifully carved traditional brown sailors, for those of you lady friends of mine who could appreciate, T...) very impressive, but not enough for me to spend more than 10 minutes on.
Not the best photo, I couldn't really capture the whole "Drua" boat but here's a little glimpse.
Fijian on a stick???
We
celebrated toothless Noah’s SIXTH birthday last week!!! SIX!!!!! Where the heck
did that go????? There wasn’t much to do with him besides presents, an Ice
cream in town and a Vampire cake... a bit different from the birthday
productions we go to in Sydney...
Dont you reckon he looks like the vampire on the cake???
The
internet situation in Rotuma is sounding very unpromising, which freaks me out
a bit, so please gather all your Gods and Goddesses and ask them to make the
connections in Rotuma work.... PLEASE!!!!!
OH!
And one more thing! A VERY VERY exciting thing! Our very very dear friends
Lizzy, Davey and their bub Delphi are coming to visit us in July!!!! Its so
cool to have our close friends make the journey over there to get a taste of
what we have been living there, and although its only for a week, and only a
couple of weeks after we arrive there, its still super exciting, and hopefully
they will be the first of many to come and experience our different way of
life... How lucky are we?!!!!
So,
till next time, be happy, slow down and feel our love floating over to you from
somewhere out there... x
Lovely to hear how you are going and the excitement of a new toilet is just a small part of it. Cant wait to hear then next exciting adventure. Dont stop writing Nadine, you are a natural..
ReplyDeleteLove to Carl and the kids..
And if you need some help building the house this time, call Alan.
Love the updates Nadine, keep them coming and good luck! Ben x
ReplyDeleteAnd your toilet is going to flush! My, how sophisticated are you....I'm praying for that internet lifeline for you...big love xHayley
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